We love our regulars!

If we don't tell you guys enough, we love you. Like, seriously. Being a cam girl isn't always an easy thing, especially at times like the end of the month when people are more focused on paying their rent and not getting off. Go figure. I don't think how much you guys realize it means to us when we have a bad cam day and you guys come save us, whether to keep us company for us to vent to or to jump in and take us private even if you *may not* be wanting to get off or spend the money. I think I'm lucky to have some of the most amazing regulars, ever. Well, most of them anyway. For example, the other day I waited on a site for ONE private just to get a check. This site was pretty slow and nothing but idiots came in. The whole time one of my regulars was there listening and watching me deal with all this. They end up taking me private, just to chat so I don't have to deal with the crap. Then yesterday, another similar situation. Had an idiot in my room I couldn't stand, one of my regulars takes me private JUST to hope it runs him off. This same regular took me earlier that same day just to help out since it'd been so slow. I mean, I could probably write a whole blog just on situations they have "saved" me from or done to help out. These are the type of guys that keep us going and make us WANT to go online and work all the time. These are the guys that don't just care about how big your tits are, but actually take the time to get to know YOU and like you for who you are. I know ALL of us cam girls have those type of guys, that pretty much come in and "save the day" and make us smile. And chances are, if you are reading this it's a good chance you know exactly what I'm talking about, or are one of these guys. I wanted to let you guys know, we appreciate you, really.

Officially Unemployed

Officially unemployed...well unless you count my camgirl status as employment but I don't exactly know how great that will look on a resume. Today was my last day at work. For those that don't know, I may (or may not) have worked for a pretty famous coffee chain. Let me tell you something, it's great to be free but a little frightening at the same time. I ran the store and managed about 20 employees that became more like a family the coworkers. I will miss them and my customers the most. The company disrespected me in a way I felt I couldn't continue my employment with them. I normally try to avoid getting too much into the "real" world in my "web" world but I'm sharing this story for a reason. Since I was 16 I have always lived on the edge. I have hopped up on numerous occasions and moved without putting much thought in it. I have walked out on an 8 year job without giving any notice. I had moved to NYC without a job, very little cash and hoping I wasn't being scammed since I never saw this "sublet" I had the keys to. And you know what? EVERYTHING HAS ALWAYS WORKED OUT.


 I always find a job shortly, I always meet new people, and I can adapt to any and every environment I put myself in. Some always say (or think) I'm a little nuts. They may just be right. But when it comes down to it, at least I'm happy. Which brings me to my point. So many people in this world are doing things just to survive because they think that's the only option, or suffering through a job that they hate and is making them miserable because it's "paying the bills". All I can say is don't do what you do because you have to, do what you do because you want to and have passion for it. At this particular time as weird as it sounds, I have passion for being a camgirl. Odd-yes. But I love doing it. I would have no problem doing this as long as I could if it manages to pay the bills.  Back to you guys though. My point is, don't just put up with something because you "have" to. The longer you are doing something and unsatisfied with life, the longer you waste spending your time being happy with yourself and doing something you enjoy. It's not always easy, but things will find a way to work out.  You just have to put your mind to it and you can do anything. I told one of my employees sometimes it's best to put something behind you in order to move on and start fresh. Well that's what I'm doing and I really suggest doing the same if you are ever in the same situation. So I'm ending this post knowing that I am now free once again to find the right path or for it to find me. I'm now unemployed. I am now free. I will make this work...

"You'd be better if..."

So while several of us females are comfortable in our bodies, there is quite a few that take all the "names" or rude comments seriously. Luckily most of the people I interact with or know from the cam business don't, but why try to change something for your own needs when to someone else (or several someones), they may not need to change a thing. I was talking with a fellow camgirl who is much smaller then me (and absolutely gorgeous) how it's the same for her as in wondering where to *fit in* as a camgirl not being the size 2 camgirl or not being the size 20 of the big camgirls. And although she has the same attitude about it as me which is "fuck it, this is who I am and enjoy it". I can't help but wonder seriously, what is wrong with you guys? I mean, if we are not what you are into, then why waste your time making "suggestions" for us to improve on. Whether we're 100lbs, 150lbs, 300lbs, or 400lbs, we should be good enough for you. All guys have their preference so if we aren't it, I guess you will find someone else who is, but save your snide remarks. We all have different things to be appreciated and different qualities that make us who we are. In my last blog I mentioned how guys from the BBW camworld want you bigger, well it works on the other side too where to some guys the smaller the better, or the more fit you are the better, the bigger the ass the better, the bigger the tits the better, and it could go on and on depending on what THAT guy is into. Whether it's your girlfriend or some camgirl, if you like us for a reason, it should be because of who we are, not because of who we aren't or who you want us to become. So girls if you question yourselves, or guys before you make your next comment telling a girl to change who they are think of this quote from this conversation I had with this other camgirl...

"I know I'm Never going to see myself as perfect, so I'm not trying to change my body at all. But its hard being told "you'd be better IF" "

The bigger the better?

So, I truly believe in the BBW community, no matter how you look, if you are bigger, the guys into this fetish, its better. I have been a thick girl my whole life, and although I've gained a little more weight lately then normal I'm completely happy in my skin and with the way I am. I don't mind doing eating shows, and hell I don't even mind putting on weight. I do however want to stay healthy because what good is a 400lb girl when they won't live long due to the health risks? I know a lot of pretty healthy larger girls (including 400+lbs) but it's only a matter of time until the health risks start. So when I'm on cam, I just sit there on these BBW sites and wonder where I fit in. I'm thicker then a chubby girl, but apparently not what the BBW lovers want when push comes to shove (or maybe I should say when dick comes to hand). Yet if I go to a "normal" site, I'm called fat compared to the 110lb models. People who lack BBW knowledge probably only assume there is only one size of large girl, being "fat". Well, theres plenty of different sizes, curvy, voluptuous, plump, BBW, SSBBW, the list goes on. I understand why guys like the larger girls, I get it. I just think standards should still exist and that bigger shouldn't always be better. I have plenty to offer the BBW lovers just the way I am.

A little advice...

Guys, when taking us camgirls private, know what you want!! As much as we would love to do everything for you that you want when you come in with enough credits for a 5 minute show and have us all over the place, needless to say, our performance will not be it's best. Also, if we tell you we can't really do something, why try to make us?? We will give you a MUCH better show if you just tell us what you want or what you are into. And if you take 5 seconds to talk to us or message us before hitting that private button. That simple.

VioletCums

Hey guys, So I decided to start a blog of my adventures as a camgirl and well, just as me. Some may be boring and pointless but I'll do my best to try and keep you intrigued. So first off, I'm known as Violetcums in the BBW world (google me). I been camming since 2008 but been off and on since about September of 2011 when I made a reappearance. I'm 31, from NY, 5'7 and well, I don't have a scale to weigh myself at the moment but I would say close to 300 would be accurate. I live in an apartment by myself, with my cat of course that I so originally named "kitty". Overall I'm your average big girl, living in a big city. Oh and did I mention, I just quit my real job so will be doing this FULL time now. Welcome to the camgirl world, Violet.