The bigger the better?

So, I truly believe in the BBW community, no matter how you look, if you are bigger, the guys into this fetish, its better. I have been a thick girl my whole life, and although I've gained a little more weight lately then normal I'm completely happy in my skin and with the way I am. I don't mind doing eating shows, and hell I don't even mind putting on weight. I do however want to stay healthy because what good is a 400lb girl when they won't live long due to the health risks? I know a lot of pretty healthy larger girls (including 400+lbs) but it's only a matter of time until the health risks start. So when I'm on cam, I just sit there on these BBW sites and wonder where I fit in. I'm thicker then a chubby girl, but apparently not what the BBW lovers want when push comes to shove (or maybe I should say when dick comes to hand). Yet if I go to a "normal" site, I'm called fat compared to the 110lb models. People who lack BBW knowledge probably only assume there is only one size of large girl, being "fat". Well, theres plenty of different sizes, curvy, voluptuous, plump, BBW, SSBBW, the list goes on. I understand why guys like the larger girls, I get it. I just think standards should still exist and that bigger shouldn't always be better. I have plenty to offer the BBW lovers just the way I am.