"You'd be better if..."

So while several of us females are comfortable in our bodies, there is quite a few that take all the "names" or rude comments seriously. Luckily most of the people I interact with or know from the cam business don't, but why try to change something for your own needs when to someone else (or several someones), they may not need to change a thing. I was talking with a fellow camgirl who is much smaller then me (and absolutely gorgeous) how it's the same for her as in wondering where to *fit in* as a camgirl not being the size 2 camgirl or not being the size 20 of the big camgirls. And although she has the same attitude about it as me which is "fuck it, this is who I am and enjoy it". I can't help but wonder seriously, what is wrong with you guys? I mean, if we are not what you are into, then why waste your time making "suggestions" for us to improve on. Whether we're 100lbs, 150lbs, 300lbs, or 400lbs, we should be good enough for you. All guys have their preference so if we aren't it, I guess you will find someone else who is, but save your snide remarks. We all have different things to be appreciated and different qualities that make us who we are. In my last blog I mentioned how guys from the BBW camworld want you bigger, well it works on the other side too where to some guys the smaller the better, or the more fit you are the better, the bigger the ass the better, the bigger the tits the better, and it could go on and on depending on what THAT guy is into. Whether it's your girlfriend or some camgirl, if you like us for a reason, it should be because of who we are, not because of who we aren't or who you want us to become. So girls if you question yourselves, or guys before you make your next comment telling a girl to change who they are think of this quote from this conversation I had with this other camgirl...

"I know I'm Never going to see myself as perfect, so I'm not trying to change my body at all. But its hard being told "you'd be better IF" "