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To be real

You know, about 80 percent of the females who work this business are pretty "real", so why is it so hard for the guys to be the same? We don't BS, we tell it like it is, and you either love it or don't. Well, I have never been the type to lie or fill up all these fake promises. If I say something, or commit to something, I'm going to be real about it. My fans and my followers that are true to me know it. I've done everything for my fans from buying a certain toy or outfit they request to learning BRITISH sign language to try to communicate to one of my deaf fans. If someone ever has a technical problem while we are camming, I am the first to make sure they get refunded or things get worked out. I always go out of my way for my fans, followers, and friends. So when people tell me something, I EXPECT them to be real about it. I'm tired of investing my time into people, and going out of my way for people when very few seem to appreciate it or reciprocate. For those that do, thanks, and trust me I notice it, but for those that don't, why waste anyone's time?! Time is too valuable to sit there with these false promises. So if you are going to make them to us, keep them or why bother? I know in this business the chances of that happening are rare, and that most of the time the best bet is to just ignore the fact and move on from it, but at the end of the day when "violetcums" or our web persona leaves and we are left with us "ourselves" we are real people with real feelings just like everyone else.

Old School, a few older pics I thought i would share

Hope you enjoyed

Free Chat VS The Cam Girl

In the scenario of Free Chat VS The Cam Girl, I'm afraid to say I think Free Chat has the best of us. For those *not* familiar with the term free chat, it's when us cam girls are on cam and in a chatroom that ANYONE can come in and chat with us. Some sites are lucky enough to have a "private" mode where only people who are doing shows can come in. Some have a more exclusive free chat where only members who have bought credits before can come in. Well, several people complain that some of us are always in the modes that aren't "free" so let me tell you why. Well, frankly it's because FREE CHAT MEMBERS SUCK. Sure, there are about a handful or two of you that we actually like on the sites and that keep us company but it always seem like the guys with the money to spend are more respectful and the ones without are the ones so demanding. I took about, literally, 30 seconds of free chat yesterday before I went back in hiding. So I'm going to go ahead and give you "free chat" guys some pointers. If you want us to like you, converse with you, and keep coming around, follow these, its THAT simple. These are the top 10 things I notice most often....


1. Don't call us "BB". That term is NOT alluring to us. We aren't even you're baby or babe to begin with, but BB? That's just being lazy.


2. We can not "open" our chests. Nor will we "open" anything else for you in free. Am immediate ignore would be..."open chest bb". We now hate you. Don't use that term ever again. Some of you are laughing because you know this is all too familiar. Even if English isn't your first language, this will not win us over, I promise.


3. Don't be OVER demanding in free chat. Do not ask us to stand up, then show our ass, then do a handbra, then ass clap, then show our feet, ect ect. If you want to see something in free chat, and aren't a paying member, ask us for one thing, and wait until either we decide to show more on our own, or someone who is a paying member comes in and asks for more. This is our JOB we do not get anything for showing things for free, but YOU do. Not very fair, right?


4. Say PLEASE. Didn't your parents teach you manners? At least if you aren't going to say please, ask nicely. You should never come in a room and have the first words out of your mouth be...."show ass". Start a conversation first, then ask us nicely. We will probably do it if you show us respect. 


5. Don't treat our sites like they are a dating site, they are not. Therefore when the first thing you are asking us is if we are single, that does not mean just because we are (or aren't) that we would be interested in you. Some of us meet fans in events, or other opportunities but that doesn't mean we are out to meet or date all of you.


6. Guys, seriously don't talk about how you will treat us/spoil us/ or other assorted things, but can't or don't even spend money on our shows or sites or videos.


7. We aren't as dumb as you think we are. Just because we are in the adult industry doesn't make us morons. I'm not even going to go into detail here, I will just leave it alone. 


8. Telling us how big (or small) your cock is, isn't going to interest us. We have seen a ton of cocks. Chances are yours isn't special. HOWEVER, most of us do LOVE to cam2cam. So take us private if you really want to show us, then maybe  at least you will catch our attention. But we aren't in free chat to "chat" about things to turn you on and get you off in free. 


9.Don't be rude to other members in our rooms, especially paying ones. Which also means your racist or prejudice comments aren't welcome. And while we are on the subject of talking, don't just come in our rooms and SIT there either.  And if we greet you and say hi, at least say hi back. Then join in the conversation. You will be kicked out if you just sit there watching us. 


10. Most importantly, treat US with respect. If you don't like us or we aren't your type, then just LEAVE. You probably aren't our type either. We don't need to hear your rude or unwelcome comments about us, our bodies, our flaws, ect. We all may not be perfect, but we love the way we are just the same. If you are going to spend time in our room, you should too.  

We love our regulars!

If we don't tell you guys enough, we love you. Like, seriously. Being a cam girl isn't always an easy thing, especially at times like the end of the month when people are more focused on paying their rent and not getting off. Go figure. I don't think how much you guys realize it means to us when we have a bad cam day and you guys come save us, whether to keep us company for us to vent to or to jump in and take us private even if you *may not* be wanting to get off or spend the money. I think I'm lucky to have some of the most amazing regulars, ever. Well, most of them anyway. For example, the other day I waited on a site for ONE private just to get a check. This site was pretty slow and nothing but idiots came in. The whole time one of my regulars was there listening and watching me deal with all this. They end up taking me private, just to chat so I don't have to deal with the crap. Then yesterday, another similar situation. Had an idiot in my room I couldn't stand, one of my regulars takes me private JUST to hope it runs him off. This same regular took me earlier that same day just to help out since it'd been so slow. I mean, I could probably write a whole blog just on situations they have "saved" me from or done to help out. These are the type of guys that keep us going and make us WANT to go online and work all the time. These are the guys that don't just care about how big your tits are, but actually take the time to get to know YOU and like you for who you are. I know ALL of us cam girls have those type of guys, that pretty much come in and "save the day" and make us smile. And chances are, if you are reading this it's a good chance you know exactly what I'm talking about, or are one of these guys. I wanted to let you guys know, we appreciate you, really.

Officially Unemployed

Officially unemployed...well unless you count my camgirl status as employment but I don't exactly know how great that will look on a resume. Today was my last day at work. For those that don't know, I may (or may not) have worked for a pretty famous coffee chain. Let me tell you something, it's great to be free but a little frightening at the same time. I ran the store and managed about 20 employees that became more like a family the coworkers. I will miss them and my customers the most. The company disrespected me in a way I felt I couldn't continue my employment with them. I normally try to avoid getting too much into the "real" world in my "web" world but I'm sharing this story for a reason. Since I was 16 I have always lived on the edge. I have hopped up on numerous occasions and moved without putting much thought in it. I have walked out on an 8 year job without giving any notice. I had moved to NYC without a job, very little cash and hoping I wasn't being scammed since I never saw this "sublet" I had the keys to. And you know what? EVERYTHING HAS ALWAYS WORKED OUT.


 I always find a job shortly, I always meet new people, and I can adapt to any and every environment I put myself in. Some always say (or think) I'm a little nuts. They may just be right. But when it comes down to it, at least I'm happy. Which brings me to my point. So many people in this world are doing things just to survive because they think that's the only option, or suffering through a job that they hate and is making them miserable because it's "paying the bills". All I can say is don't do what you do because you have to, do what you do because you want to and have passion for it. At this particular time as weird as it sounds, I have passion for being a camgirl. Odd-yes. But I love doing it. I would have no problem doing this as long as I could if it manages to pay the bills.  Back to you guys though. My point is, don't just put up with something because you "have" to. The longer you are doing something and unsatisfied with life, the longer you waste spending your time being happy with yourself and doing something you enjoy. It's not always easy, but things will find a way to work out.  You just have to put your mind to it and you can do anything. I told one of my employees sometimes it's best to put something behind you in order to move on and start fresh. Well that's what I'm doing and I really suggest doing the same if you are ever in the same situation. So I'm ending this post knowing that I am now free once again to find the right path or for it to find me. I'm now unemployed. I am now free. I will make this work...

"You'd be better if..."

So while several of us females are comfortable in our bodies, there is quite a few that take all the "names" or rude comments seriously. Luckily most of the people I interact with or know from the cam business don't, but why try to change something for your own needs when to someone else (or several someones), they may not need to change a thing. I was talking with a fellow camgirl who is much smaller then me (and absolutely gorgeous) how it's the same for her as in wondering where to *fit in* as a camgirl not being the size 2 camgirl or not being the size 20 of the big camgirls. And although she has the same attitude about it as me which is "fuck it, this is who I am and enjoy it". I can't help but wonder seriously, what is wrong with you guys? I mean, if we are not what you are into, then why waste your time making "suggestions" for us to improve on. Whether we're 100lbs, 150lbs, 300lbs, or 400lbs, we should be good enough for you. All guys have their preference so if we aren't it, I guess you will find someone else who is, but save your snide remarks. We all have different things to be appreciated and different qualities that make us who we are. In my last blog I mentioned how guys from the BBW camworld want you bigger, well it works on the other side too where to some guys the smaller the better, or the more fit you are the better, the bigger the ass the better, the bigger the tits the better, and it could go on and on depending on what THAT guy is into. Whether it's your girlfriend or some camgirl, if you like us for a reason, it should be because of who we are, not because of who we aren't or who you want us to become. So girls if you question yourselves, or guys before you make your next comment telling a girl to change who they are think of this quote from this conversation I had with this other camgirl...

"I know I'm Never going to see myself as perfect, so I'm not trying to change my body at all. But its hard being told "you'd be better IF" "

The bigger the better?

So, I truly believe in the BBW community, no matter how you look, if you are bigger, the guys into this fetish, its better. I have been a thick girl my whole life, and although I've gained a little more weight lately then normal I'm completely happy in my skin and with the way I am. I don't mind doing eating shows, and hell I don't even mind putting on weight. I do however want to stay healthy because what good is a 400lb girl when they won't live long due to the health risks? I know a lot of pretty healthy larger girls (including 400+lbs) but it's only a matter of time until the health risks start. So when I'm on cam, I just sit there on these BBW sites and wonder where I fit in. I'm thicker then a chubby girl, but apparently not what the BBW lovers want when push comes to shove (or maybe I should say when dick comes to hand). Yet if I go to a "normal" site, I'm called fat compared to the 110lb models. People who lack BBW knowledge probably only assume there is only one size of large girl, being "fat". Well, theres plenty of different sizes, curvy, voluptuous, plump, BBW, SSBBW, the list goes on. I understand why guys like the larger girls, I get it. I just think standards should still exist and that bigger shouldn't always be better. I have plenty to offer the BBW lovers just the way I am.

A little advice...

Guys, when taking us camgirls private, know what you want!! As much as we would love to do everything for you that you want when you come in with enough credits for a 5 minute show and have us all over the place, needless to say, our performance will not be it's best. Also, if we tell you we can't really do something, why try to make us?? We will give you a MUCH better show if you just tell us what you want or what you are into. And if you take 5 seconds to talk to us or message us before hitting that private button. That simple.

VioletCums

Hey guys, So I decided to start a blog of my adventures as a camgirl and well, just as me. Some may be boring and pointless but I'll do my best to try and keep you intrigued. So first off, I'm known as Violetcums in the BBW world (google me). I been camming since 2008 but been off and on since about September of 2011 when I made a reappearance. I'm 31, from NY, 5'7 and well, I don't have a scale to weigh myself at the moment but I would say close to 300 would be accurate. I live in an apartment by myself, with my cat of course that I so originally named "kitty". Overall I'm your average big girl, living in a big city. Oh and did I mention, I just quit my real job so will be doing this FULL time now. Welcome to the camgirl world, Violet.